Michael Ontkean is Dr. Zach Elliott and Harry Hamlin is Bart McGuire in Making Love. In this 1980’s picture, Zach has been mostly happily married to Claire (Kate Jackson) for 8 years. He’s started to question his sexuality, but can’t quite work up the nerve to experiment. Bart, a bit of a hypochondriac, comes to see him and the two strike up a friendship which moves to something sexual. Zach finally works up the nerve to come out to his wife, but can’t find the acceptance he wants with Bart.
One of the first real gay movies I ever saw on the really, really late movie.